Kenneth Douglas Elsworth, 80, of Kirkland/Bothell, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family August 12th, 2024. He was born on October 4th, 1943 to Helen and George Elsworth in Tacoma, WA.
Public Ceremony: Celebration of Life
Remembrances: Memorial – Mr. Elsworth
Ken attended Western Washington University (WWU); was drafted into the U.S. Army to serve his country at Fort Irwin, CA as a Medical Specialist Fifth Class; and graduated from WWU with a degree in education.
He married college sweetheart Frances Marie Mancuso and they enjoyed 57 magical years together. Ken and Fran were blessed by their loving children Todd and Jennifer and adoring grandchildren Violet and Sebastian.
Mr. Elsworth dedicated 41 years teaching 5th and 6th graders, starting his illustrious career at Carnation Elementary and then on to H.D. Thoreau Elementary where he retired in 2009. As a Master Teacher, Mr. Elsworth was recognized for his dedication and service to children by the Lake Washington School District.
Sports and recreation were an important part of his life. As a Tacoma youth, Kenny enjoyed playing football but “struck out” on the baseball diamond. At Stadium High School, he lettered in multiple sports- Basketball, Football, and Track and Field (discus*) often competing at the state level. In high school, Ken and his brother, Dave, built a boat with their dad to water ski in Commencement Bay.
Mr. Elsworth was an Assistant Coach at Tolt High School for the football and basketball teams. As a dad, he coached both Todd and Jenny’s soccer and basketball teams. In his 30’s, Ken enjoyed playing soccer on the Burger King Whoppers, running like a gazelle down the pitch, as teammates would remark.
Ken and Fran were always on the sidelines cheering for their own children’s teams and with his Mr. Elsworth hat on, he would also be there supporting his students playing sports and other artistic performances.
As an enthusiastic outdoor recreationist, Ken and Fran enjoyed hiking and snowshoeing in the mountains, oftentimes arranging group outings with family and friends to share their favorite trails and hidden gems of the Pacific Northwest. After retirement, Ken became an avid cyclist with his abundant available time, easily taking 35-mile day rides including trails and roads. A simple ride for him could be hopping on the Burke Gilman trail at Bothell Landing, through the UW campus, onto I-90 and then head back to Bothell. It didn’t matter the weather; he was a true cyclist at heart.
Ken relished his home life as a family man. As a faithful and loving spouse of 57 years, Ken was a Gold Medal winner among husbands. He was devoted to Fran. He supported, celebrated and loved her. They were partners in life and crime. Rarely separated, they could enjoy the simple pleasures of life as well as extravagant experiences. Ken was always a willing participant along with Fran in midnight capers, skits, pranks and performances at family celebrations. He was spontaneous and flexible with Fran’s wild, crazy, and random ideas. Ken and Fran shared so much in common: their strong commitment to family, love of teaching, enjoyment of the outdoors, travel, and sense of humor was twofold. Ken was known for his one line, quick wit that left Fran laughing. His light heartedness and a sense of not taking life so seriously, made for a happy home. To show appreciation and gratitude is a quality of character. Ken was genuine in his Thank Yous and didn’t miss an opportunity to express how blessed he was for what Fran did for him. His goodnights would always come with a “Thank you for what all you did for me today.” It’s easy to love someone when they are so lovable.
As a young dad, he took joy in playing with Todd and Jennifer and was the one parent out playing with the neighborhood kids. He had a strong sense of humor and was willing to be playful and silly- showing his childlike spirit- and was genuinely present in his family’s home life. Ken was curious, nurturing, supportive, and sought knowledge constantly- instilling this in his children and grandchildren. He consistently provided unconditional love.
He was the ultimate example of a parent guiding his children how to treat oneself and others with respect, leading by example at home and in the community. Sitting on his big shoulders, he gave his kids a wonderful perspective of the world around them, as well as providing them with a solid foundation to stand and lean on.
Over the years, he continued to demonstrate his admirable qualities with an added element of friendship with Todd and Jennifer. He prioritized his family, and was always there when they needed him.
Ken’s extended family as well as Todd and Jennifer’s friends, were recipients of his love. He was sincerely interested in them, hearing their stories and participating in many aspects of their lives. His arms had a big wingspan, to enfold many people in his grasp.
Poppie. The Man. The Myth. The Legend. As “Poppie” to his grandchildren, Violet and Sebastian, he continued to share his tried and true playful approach to life and living. Consistently showing authentic interest in their lives, he celebrated them, their friends, school activities, interests, and passions. Poppie was there in all aspects of life. As a sincere listener, he would respond with his sage advice by offering anecdotal stories demonstrating the variety of his life experiences amassed over his years. Poppie kept the door open to encourage them to learn more about the world of art, history, and travel. Most importantly, he took every opportunity to tell his family he loved them.
Everyone packed and ready? Here we go, cross country for summer adventures. Beginning in 1980 with Ken at the helm of a 1976 Dodge Aspen with no A/C, and long before the Griswolds, the family ventured far past the borders of Washington. Taking in historical sites, monuments, national parks, museums, capitals, and all contiguous states and provinces across Canada. The family traveled from the day school got out to the end of August packing in as many adventures as possible on a tight budget. KOA Campgrounds and Motel 6s were our home away from home for the 3 months. Oh no, there’s the same bedspread in every Motel 6! Always the educators, Ken and Fran made sure there was a learning opportunity with every stop. Ken was on a constant search for material and ideas to include in his classroom and lessons. It probably took so long to travel around the US as Ken would stop and talk to many along the way. There were no strangers in his life, only friends waiting to be met.
In 2007 and 2008 Ken was a teacher leader in the People to People Student Ambassador Program traveling in the summer with high school students throughout Europe. He was a beacon of light for the students, not only with his spirit but he could easily be seen in a crowd in case a student got lost, which happened often.
These travels were an impetus for Ken and Fran to conquer Europe and northern Africa on their own. With Ken retired, he and Fran would immerse themselves in researching destinations, travel hot spots, navigating routes, transportation and lodging. For four years they traveled to 26 countries, with each trip lasting two months. Every trip was an incredible adventure and they treasured this time together. A highlight was traveling to Norway where they were welcomed by a rousing bunch of “Viking” relatives still living on the ancestral farm. Ken was the chauffeur and the scribe, writing every night in their travel journals capturing the day’s adventures. As in their other travels, Ken found people to be equally fascinating and intriguing, so much so, he and Fran created “person of the day” acknowledgements. Some of them are still in contact with them to this day. Travel encapsulated his wide range of interests, history, science, art, architecture, culture, and geography. It was one of his life’s passions.
As “Mr. Elsworth” to decades of Thoreau Frogs, Ken was a mentor to students, faculty and staff. He provided inspiration, guidance, celebrated individuals, their talents and allowed a safe and nurturing place for students to feel seen, heard and have value. Each morning, his students would be greeted with a welcoming handshake.
Mr. Elsworth spearheaded the experience of Camp Burton and field trips to; Safeco Field; University of Washington campus (including attending a customized class for the students); Schooner Adventurous; Port Townsend Historical Museum; Western Washington University Robotics, Seattle Center Fun Forest, Friday Harbor Whale Museum. These excursions provided students with an off-campus opportunity to open their eyes to the world around them beyond academics and gain a stronger sense of place. Parents clamored to be chaperones on these trips that left a lasting impression on his students and families.
On Thoreau’s campus and in his colorful and lively classroom he was known for hot air balloons, rockets, pinewood derby races, gingerbread houses, the word of the day, daily science experiments, read alouds, autobiographies, intramurals, his “Steps to Success” stairs (in the new building), and the culmination of the student’s experience with a 6th grade picnic and graduation ceremony and celebration.
A tribute to the impact Ken made on his students was evident with the relationship he had even years after they left his classroom. Students continued throughout the years returning to visit Mr. Elsworth in his classroom or home to share with him their successes and challenges.They knew he would listen and give them encouragement and provide support. With the advent of Facebook, Ken enjoyed being updated on his students and being able to celebrate them.
Authors: Fran, Todd, and Jenny
A public Celebration of Life ceremony is going to be held Saturday, September 21st in Kirkland, WA. The family requests no flowers or gifts be sent. Ken Elsworth’s remains will be dispersed by his family around the world in his favorite places and those he had yet to travel.
Please share your memories on Memorial – Mr. Elsworth.